Your Man Don't Want You

When the man you want doesn't want you.... What do you do? This one is for the ladies. How do you except this? Is he even worth spending your time thinking about how you should react? I believe every woman has been in this situation whether you admit it or if you're in denial. I have a few clients that would like to know what did you do in this situation and how did you let that garbage go. Feel free to leave you stories and advice.

NO JOB?!

I know what most people think of work from home jobs.  They are all scams right? Wrong. I used to think the same.  I no longer think that.  Now I believe that it takes a certain type of person with a certain mind set or the skills to work online.  No marketing skills?  We all have marketing skills.  We advertise for Jordan, Levis, Hair weave companies, and Lebron etc. all the time.  Word of mouth and social media is the best form of advertising there is these days.  We do it all day every day while socializing on Facebook and Instagram so why not get paid for it.  You can't knock it if you don't try it! <---- Click here!

Here's something to look at that also that cost as little as $1 to make hundreds a week. <--- Click here. Get that stress off your back by giving this a try.  I don't know about you but I want whatever easy free money that I can get!

UNTAMEABLE HAIR??!!

My cabinet in my bathroom where my hair and beauty supplies are kept looks like my kitchen cabinets where I keep my cooking oils lol.  Yes these are a few of the things that I use in my hair that works better than anything I have ever bought in a beauty supply store.  I use egg yolks, olive oil and honey twice a month and I use coconut oil daily to maintain moisture.  I am currently free of all chemicals and my hair is stronger than ever.  I thought I would share this with you guys and I suggest you all try it.  I was really surprised with the results that I got and I recommend it to those of you that are struggling to tame your natural hair.  (I know how hard that can be).  I finally got my hair where I want it to be.  Let me know how this works for you.

MIND YOUR BUSINESS

Geesh!!! I have yet to figure out why a person is always minding another persons business.  Someone is always trying to figure out what someone else has going on instead of tending to their own lives.  It drives me crazy.  Especially for a person to try to figure me out when they don't even know me and never will.  I hate to hear a person talk about someone else that I'm guessing they don't approve of or hardly know but they really need to take a look at themselves.  Check yo'self before you talk about what you THINK someone else has going in their life.  You betta get yo' life!!! HAVE SEVERAL SEATS!! Better yet.... make money and be happy!

MISUNDERSTOOD!

Ok so..... not many people know me too well.  The few that do can't compare me.  I'm like no other, and you will never meet another.  Can you blame a lady that's aiming for "incredible"? So many wanting to be in the presence of 'T' is so inevitable.  I'm not mean, I don't have a bad temper, and a nasty attitude.  I'm often forced to be forward, over-direct, and sometimes rude.....On the other hand, I am only me!!! I am so so sweet and extremely sensuous and I move with an resplendent swag that's so very unique. She couldn't walk in my shoes even if I loaned them, while I stand out like a black diamond she falls behind like a depreciated gem. (smile)                                                

Stereotyping....

It is so easy to be labeled as something you're not.  It is so easy to be judged by others for what you say, what you wear, or what you do.  And no one is to blame for that, this is just the way it is sometimes. (life)  The police do it all of the time.  They stereotype people because of the car that they drive.  They judge the boy that has on the baggy pants and the red t-shirt.  They think bad of the little boy because of the things that his older brother did in the past. Then we have the woman that wears tight jeans and little skirts, some men might think that she is wild,  a gold digger, and only good to lay on her back.  We can't forget that man that drives the nice car with the nice paint job, wears the nicest clothing, and the newest shoes..... some of us ladies think that she should be dating that man and that that man will take care of her.  Well let me tell you, looks can be deceiving.  Everything is not what it seems and is definitely not what it looks like.  That woman in the tight jeans and the short mini skirt just might be the nerdiest, nicest person you will ever meet with the warmest heart.  That guy driving that nice car with the nice paint job just might be married, driving his wife's car, with no money in his pocket. (smile) I'm just saying..... 

People Act Strange

I give up! The saying "Actions speak louder than words" is so true.  When I was a teenager, it was common to hear and listen to what a person tells you..... their feelings, thoughts, wants, and desires or whatever it is they wanted to say.  I mean, why not believe every word that someone says, as a teenager you haven't really experienced much so you really don't have a reason to doubt the truth in what a person says whether it was your parents, your best friend, or your boy friend.  As I grew older, I find myself thinking a whole lot about what others say and do and trying to read too much into people's action. ( I can't help it) For example, if my closest friend says she worries about me but when I am going through so much....why doesn't she call me, why doesn't she care about my well being, why has communication ceased completely?  And what about the man/ woman that tells you that he feels a certain way, and how much he/she wants you in their life but never tries to understand you and where you have been in life before he just walks away. Let's not forget your parents, the one's that have brought you into this world.  Is your role as the child and your parents role supposed to switch as you get older? Seems this is what happens to me. Is a parent suppose to turn their back on you for his or her spouse? It seems crazy but not unheard of. 

After all the broken promises and mixed actions from the people around me, it has caused me to question even the smallest things. This may be good to some but to me I wish it wasn't this way.  I'm tired of trying to figure out why someone acts a certain way or says certain things if they don't mean them. People act funny!  Just be real.... STAMP!!!